let me just say this....
3 months after i started propecia people said things like "wow your so bald" and "going with the comb over look?"....exact words

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now, people comment when we talk about hair. One of the kids around here is almost completely bald. Whenever his name is mentioned they talk about how it sucks that he is going bald at age 21( he is almost completely bald, just peach fuzz), which starts up 'the balding' conversation. My name doesnt even come up. Everyone says my hair looks normal now.
my hair has thickened up a lot in the past year thanks to minox and propecia. The top was about 50% less dense than the sides. Now its about 20-25% less dense. Sure, i look in the mirror sometimes and see thin spots. It's not as thick as the sides and i can see the hairloss pattern very well when my hair is wet. Although when my hair is dry it is hard for others to see i am losing hair.
propecia works...and it works very well for most men. Most people either don't understand or don't listen when their doctor tells them it takes a long time to see any results. They're right too...takes about a year to see results. But believe me when i say this.... -everyone- goes through some sort of shed and a period of disbelief in their first year. The days pass...hair begins to look better. More days pass...hair looks the same. Years pass....hair looks the same. Your hair would look -much- worse in 5 years, 10 years, 20 years if you didnt use propecia.
Propecia really is a wonder pill and most people on these boards underestimate it. It certainly does not cure hairloss but it fights it harder than anything else and does a good job at it.